Originally posted by Catullus 16
Originally posted by Deathblade
Originally posted by Catullus 16
it is a great point.
however, it's not out of the question for new users to expect that a league forum will behave according to the rules that everyone agreed to.
moreover, when a well-intentioned person happens to make an innocent post, i do feel empathy towards them when they're suddenly flamed by a dozen people for several pages. why wouldn't they get upset? why wouldn't they respond in kind? why wouldn't they start pointing to the rules, especially when (in their perception) the mods aren't upholding them?
this frequent scenario really shouldn't be a surprise to anyone.
Again...rules are upheld just as much as they are in other forums. The only one that might not be is personal attacks, which is purely subjective, and relies 100% on the individuals threshold. Some people get offended and pissed if someone calls them a turd. Other people, you can talk about fucking their cousin while simultaneously telling them to go fuck a goat...and they send another pic of their cousin in response.
Where do you put the personal attack line? Ban for anything that could be negative about a person? You will always have people that have a smaller threshold than other people, so unless you put it at the bare minimum, then someone will get offended at some point. And asking for it to be the bare minimum is pretty fucking ridiculous.
As for people getting insulted for many pages in their innocent thread...it is usually along the lines of "loldots", and "when will you gut?". It's usually not "I'm going to fuck your mom".
i agree that it's subjective... and it would be a fool's game to try and specify a line.
but can we agree that the main reason why the CPL seems more prone to this complaint is because of the sheer volume of those sorts of responses?
while it's easy for individual CPLers to point to the fact that they personally didn't say anything that far out of line, the perception for the "victim" is of the aggregate. this is why i mentioned earlier about the asymmetry that seems to be in play here.
i mean, let's be honest -- when the CPL decides to mock someone, they're not particularly gentle. frankly, this is one of CPL's strong suits... reducing people (especially assholes) into quivering mounds of impotent rage. well okay, that can be a good skill at times (especially when dealing with assholes), but you've got to admit that there have been some innocents that have gotten into your crosshairs... and when they get pissed off (who wouldn't?) that doesn't justify their maltreatment post hoc.
even people new to the internet can usually handle one opponent... but the CPL is a blitzkrieg that i'm not sure anyone can really handle.
but when is this blitzkrieg unleashed upons omeone who was not acting in an inflammatory manner? At least in the last 4 months.
Originally posted by Deathblade
Originally posted by Catullus 16
it is a great point.
however, it's not out of the question for new users to expect that a league forum will behave according to the rules that everyone agreed to.
moreover, when a well-intentioned person happens to make an innocent post, i do feel empathy towards them when they're suddenly flamed by a dozen people for several pages. why wouldn't they get upset? why wouldn't they respond in kind? why wouldn't they start pointing to the rules, especially when (in their perception) the mods aren't upholding them?
this frequent scenario really shouldn't be a surprise to anyone.
Again...rules are upheld just as much as they are in other forums. The only one that might not be is personal attacks, which is purely subjective, and relies 100% on the individuals threshold. Some people get offended and pissed if someone calls them a turd. Other people, you can talk about fucking their cousin while simultaneously telling them to go fuck a goat...and they send another pic of their cousin in response.
Where do you put the personal attack line? Ban for anything that could be negative about a person? You will always have people that have a smaller threshold than other people, so unless you put it at the bare minimum, then someone will get offended at some point. And asking for it to be the bare minimum is pretty fucking ridiculous.
As for people getting insulted for many pages in their innocent thread...it is usually along the lines of "loldots", and "when will you gut?". It's usually not "I'm going to fuck your mom".
i agree that it's subjective... and it would be a fool's game to try and specify a line.
but can we agree that the main reason why the CPL seems more prone to this complaint is because of the sheer volume of those sorts of responses?
while it's easy for individual CPLers to point to the fact that they personally didn't say anything that far out of line, the perception for the "victim" is of the aggregate. this is why i mentioned earlier about the asymmetry that seems to be in play here.
i mean, let's be honest -- when the CPL decides to mock someone, they're not particularly gentle. frankly, this is one of CPL's strong suits... reducing people (especially assholes) into quivering mounds of impotent rage. well okay, that can be a good skill at times (especially when dealing with assholes), but you've got to admit that there have been some innocents that have gotten into your crosshairs... and when they get pissed off (who wouldn't?) that doesn't justify their maltreatment post hoc.
even people new to the internet can usually handle one opponent... but the CPL is a blitzkrieg that i'm not sure anyone can really handle.
but when is this blitzkrieg unleashed upons omeone who was not acting in an inflammatory manner? At least in the last 4 months.






























