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Originally posted by blackdog3377
Its especially sad listening to some depressed suicidal people talk about it. We've had some patients that have absolutely no logical reason why they want to commit suicide but they just cannot stop feeling like they want to kill themselves. They literally cannot think of a single reason why they should but thats all they can think about.


I've seen that, it is really sad. Then when they bring up that they can't figure out why, it makes it worse because they want a real tangible fixable reason.

You work or have worked in a psychiatric hospital right? There's one here I've volunteered in and good god the way some of the people go about working with mentally ill people is worthy of euthanasia.

In the children's ward (17 and down or up to 19 years old if still in high school) aside from two elderly staff members, they treated the kids like it was giant timeout and like they had done something wrong. Ridiculously strict and disciplined like basic training (analogy courtesy of one of the elder staff members, Vietnam vet), if one kid didn't line up on his exact spot within a few seconds of someone calling mealtime, they would be scolded and made to go 5 minutes later than everyone. Talking out of turn got you 'extra room time' which was a 1 hour room confinement for patients while the different shifts of paid staff swapped out and volunteers sat there making sure there were no suicide attempts or fights.

'Therapy' was terrible, they had all the kids sit in a group and run down a list of questions like "do you feel safe on a scale of 1-10, what are you here for" and anything more than a number and a word or two got the ire of the person asking the questions like it was a joke. The head psychiatrist threw meds at people within 24 hours of them getting there and it was usually a mood stabilizer and a 'sleep aid' (knockout pill) regardless of why they were there.

First of two stories I have is the head psychiatrist gave this kid with very severe schizophrenia (he saw an entire world that didn't exist, but he was very kind, nice, and calm) meds that basically zapped all energy from him. He took an extra 30 minute nap after wakeup (6am) and couldn't be coaxed out of bed by staff members who luckily were nice and didnt try to force him. Head psychiatrist gets wind of this, comes to his room and after not even 1 minute of talking to him starts yelling at him to get out of bed and join the group for morning therapy.

The worst story I have, will omit the name, a 7 year old was sent there for 5 weeks because his dad OD'd, his mom was in the adult wing for schizophrenia and drug issues, and he had schizophrenia. Volunteers had limited access to patient information but I gleaned the court just said 'fuck it, send him to the nuthouse' instead of finding friends/family/foster for him. He would get really violent and though I came in on his second week and something before it could have happened, but every time he went through an episode, it was met with people yelling at him, restraining him, confining him to his room or 'the quiet box' (padded room) and zero compassion or therapy.

I had to stop working there after reporting 2 staff members, it made me want to hurt someone.

tl;dr in my experience with our mental healthcare system, it is broken.
 
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The only positives I took away from a loooooooong list of negatives: There were 2 very committed staff members who genuinely tried to help. And for the most part I ate the cafeteria food served to the patients, and it was fucking good. Homecooked, usually a few different choices, the cooks were great.
 
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Good day to bring up mental health. Woke up this morning to my girlfriend trying to kill herself. Her douchebag ex husband keeps telling her she's a terrible mother, she doesn't do enough for the kids, and that she's worthless. Apparently she took all of that to her head. I had to hold her down while I waited for the police/ambulance. I've never been so scared or cried so much in my life. I do have a point in posting this private information that I otherwise wouldn't post.

The psychiatrist recommend that douchebag come to her sessions with her. I'm not a trained mental professional, but isn't that the last thing she needs? I'm being deadly serious, no pun intended.
 
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Originally posted by LionsLover
Good day to bring up mental health. Woke up this morning to my girlfriend trying to kill herself. Her douchebag ex husband keeps telling her she's a terrible mother, she doesn't do enough for the kids, and that she's worthless. Apparently she took all of that to her head. I had to hold her down while I waited for the police/ambulance. I've never been so scared or cried so much in my life. I do have a point in posting this private information that I otherwise wouldn't post.

The psychiatrist recommend that douchebag come to her sessions with her. I'm not a trained mental professional, but isn't that the last thing she needs? I'm being deadly serious, no pun intended.


Really sorry to hear that, everything alright?

It could really go either way. Im confused why he would recommend it so early. It could end with him having some realization that he is destroying her, but it seems that's his intention anyway. I'd talk to the psych in advance
 
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Originally posted by rams78110
Really sorry to hear that, everything alright?

It could really go either way. Im confused why he would recommend it so early. It could end with him having some realization that he is destroying her, but it seems that's his intention anyway. I'd talk to the psych in advance


Perhaps it is for both of them to realize how their reckless actions and comments are going to destroy their children and/or if they don't act like responsible people the children will be taken away from them.

LionsLover, I wish you well through this very difficult situation.
 
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Originally posted by Phantom Of The Opera
Perhaps it is for both of them to realize how their reckless actions and comments are going to destroy their children and/or if they don't act like responsible people the children will be taken away from them.

LionsLover, I wish you well through this very difficult situation.


But with someone in that state, you'd typically try not to bring back the main stressor immediately. It could work, but my limited knowledge in this field would indicate that's not usual or the best idea.
 
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But with someone in that state, you'd typically try not to bring back the main stressor immediately. It could work, but my limited knowledge in this field would indicate that's not usual or the best idea.


The best idea to slap both parents on the forehead a few times.

Seriously though. He needs to have someone explain to him verbal and emotion abuse and how this is going to effect his children. She needs some alone counseling to help improve her self esteem. I agree, until she is comfortable she needs some individual sessions.
 
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Originally posted by rams78110
Jesus fuck. I dont. What. How.

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Originally posted by rams78110
I've seen that, it is really sad. Then when they bring up that they can't figure out why, it makes it worse because they want a real tangible fixable reason.

You work or have worked in a psychiatric hospital right? There's one here I've volunteered in and good god the way some of the people go about working with mentally ill people is worthy of euthanasia.

tl;dr in my experience with our mental healthcare system, it is broken.


I currently work at a psych hospital. We are a private facility so our level of care is WAAAYYYY higher than what you described. I've never heard of anything that bad around here but we get some patients who have been to other facilities that are just like "thank god I came here". Were small enough that we can actually focus on care and treatment instead of just medicating people.

Generally most of our groups are focused on coping skills for dealing with stress, building self-esteem, and healthy relationships because those are what a lot of our patients struggle with.

We also tend to keep people for slightly longer than most places, up to two weeks in some cases. We won't discharge anyone until its clear they are stable and ready to go. I've heard some stories of places kicking people out in 3 days when they were still suicidal.
 
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Originally posted by LionsLover
Good day to bring up mental health. Woke up this morning to my girlfriend trying to kill herself. Her douchebag ex husband keeps telling her she's a terrible mother, she doesn't do enough for the kids, and that she's worthless. Apparently she took all of that to her head. I had to hold her down while I waited for the police/ambulance. I've never been so scared or cried so much in my life. I do have a point in posting this private information that I otherwise wouldn't post.

The psychiatrist recommend that douchebag come to her sessions with her. I'm not a trained mental professional, but isn't that the last thing she needs? I'm being deadly serious, no pun intended.


Thats basically a relationship that needs to end period. No contact outside of what is strictly necessary to take care of the kids. Some people are just toxic like that because they have their own mental health issues. He needs help too.

Hope your girlfriend is ok and that she can get the help she needs.
 
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thanks for the support everyone, basically everyone is saying what I've already believed myself. Good thing is I will be there tomorrow as well on her insistence. That guy is the brown stinking stain of a douchebags underwear, he is not good for her or the kids, but we can't remove the kids yet. He has the kids thinking she doesn't want to spend time with them, which is so far from the truth. The only good that can come of him being there is if he realized what he is doing. But he's a little dense so I'm not sure it will get through. Once again thanks everyone, I don't usually open up on here like that but I'm glad I did.
 
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Originally posted by LionsLover
thanks for the support everyone, basically everyone is saying what I've already believed myself. Good thing is I will be there tomorrow as well on her insistence. That guy is the brown stinking stain of a douchebags underwear, he is not good for her or the kids, but we can't remove the kids yet. He has the kids thinking she doesn't want to spend time with them, which is so far from the truth. The only good that can come of him being there is if he realized what he is doing. But he's a little dense so I'm not sure it will get through. Once again thanks everyone, I don't usually open up on here like that but I'm glad I did.


Sometimes its good to just get it off your back and talk about it with someone.
 
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Originally posted by blackdog3377
Sometimes its good to just get it off your back and talk about it with someone.


True, I haven't talked to anyone about it except her mother and you guys
 
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do they know anything about of calls you are allowed to receive when you're in a mental health clinic? The first time I tried calling my girl everyday, I get through easy.after that the phone just keeps ringing and ringing and ringing all day long. She told me that they can receive calls all day long except when in meetings or quiet time, and I'm not calling during those times. Could it be there just don't tell me these things about limited phone calls? Because I have important information for her, and I can't get through.
 
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Am I benching wrong? I recently started working out again because my landscaping job has been pretty sporadic and I want to stay in shape. I was never a huge bench fan for multiple reasons. But anyway I started up again and feel no effort at all from the parts of my pec from where it touches the sternum to the middle of my pec. The only place I ever feel any soreness or effort or anything at all that would suggest I am using the muscle is the very outer part where it touches my deltoid and armpit.

What am I doing wrong?

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