Originally posted by Catullus16
i freely disagreed with him using the exact same tone he was using with me and the only result was that he wrote me off as a "sophist" and refused to speak to me for literally years.
i think that's a win, not sure.And here's the problem. Seriously. I still don't agree with him on everything but I get along with him fine. I just don't do what you did and debate him on his terms. I know what I know and while he might not agree with what I know, I'm not gonna change what I know to agree with him... unless he's right. Now he thinks he's right 97% of the time. Nobody is right 97% of the time... hell... I'm happy to crack 60% myself. But if I'm to have a change of mind then it'll be because I LEARNED it... not was told it. I'm always willing to entertain thoughts and viewpoints that aren't my own. But there is nothing that says I must accept them without scrutiny.